If you don’t know how to break up with her (him) – send this text

“Hey [Name], I hope you’re doing well. I wanted to talk to you about something that has been on my mind lately. Over the past couple of months, I’ve enjoyed getting to know you, and I appreciate the time we’ve spent together. However, after some careful thought, I’ve realised that I don’t see a long-term romantic future for us. I wanted to be honest with you because I think it’s important to be transparent and respectful.

Please know that this decision wasn’t easy for me, and it’s not a reflection of your worth or any shortcomings on your part. Sometimes, two people just don’t have the right compatibility or connection for a lasting relationship. I believe it’s better to address this now rather than prolong any uncertainty or hurt feelings.

I genuinely wish you all the best, and I hope we can both find happiness and fulfillment in our future endeavors. If you’d like to talk about this further or have any questions, I’m open to having a conversation. Take care.”

Remember to tailor the message to your specific circumstances and feelings. It’s essential to be kind, honest, and understanding throughout the process. And if you are already long time together than better say it all in person.