10 relationship green flags

10 relationships red flags

Dating someone new? 

See if you can spot these signs to indicate if they’re a good match. Save the list and send it to your Single friend 👌✅

1️⃣ You’re able to have difficult conversations, and there’s curiosity & compassion for why each person thinks what they think & do what they do;

2️⃣ You enjoy their company. Consider not only the big, exciting moments but how it feels to do small tasks such as grocery shopping together or just sitting next to each other and watching people; 

3️⃣ You might occasionally trigger each other but the relationship feels like a safe space to work on those things;

4️⃣ The ability to admit when they’re wrong. They apologize and take accountability;

5️⃣ They’re responsive. They make an effort to reach out to you, make plans and respond in a timely manner;

6️⃣ There is consistency in telling & showing you how they feel about you;

7️⃣ They’re happy for you when you succeed & they support your progress;

8️⃣ Honoring your boundaries and needs when you communicate them; 

9️⃣ Having similar outlooks on life. 

Is it necessary to you that the person you’re with is also a vegetarian or follows the same religion? What are your priorities? Think about which of these are important for your partner to share;

1️⃣0️⃣ They consider you when making plans. Say your partner insists that your date nights always involve a sporting event or watching movies you don’t like, this is a telltale sign that they are not considering your wants and needs.

No potential partner will be perfect however, if someone is exhibiting far more red flags than green, they might not be the best match in a relationship 🙌

What else would you add? What are your green flags?